Parenting - Marblehead Current

25 Aug

ASK LIZZIE: Crying at drop-off is not a red flag

LIzzie AssaColumns, Education, Opinion, Parenting

You stood at the school door this morning. You said goodbye, and maybe they skipped in and maybe they held onto your leg, stretching out your leggings and leaving wet tear and drool marks all down the side. Either way you walked back to the car and started worrying before you even got your seatbelt on. Now you've got a few hours. You're going to spend most of it holding your breath and wondering: Current parenting columnist Lizzie Assa COURTESY PHOTO Is she crying? Did…

10 Aug

Board of Health announces free parenting classes

Leigh BlanderLocal News, Parenting

Responding to survey results that identified stress as a key concern among Marblehead parents, the Board of Health is launching free parenting classes this fall. The four-session series, offered in partnership with local business Marblehead Parenting, will help expectant parents prepare for the emotional, psychological and practical realities of having a baby. About 160 babies are born to Marblehead families each year, according to Board of Health Chair Dr. Tom Massaro. The Board of Health is set to offer free parenting classes to Marblehead caregivers. …

07 Apr

CURRENT EVENTS: Marblehead’s best bets

Julia RocklerArt, Culture, Entertainment, Nonprofit corner, Parenting, Theater, Top Stories

Current Events spotlights notable happenings around town in the coming week. To submit a listing, email info@marbleheadnews.org. New improv classes at Creative SpiritWednesday, April 8 - May 13, 6:30-8 p.m. Let your creativity shine by joining a new improvisational acting class on Wednesday evenings. No acting experience is needed, just come participate in lively theater games and creative exercises. Local artist Peyton Pugmire, who owns Creative Spirit, leads the classes at 40 South St, suite 102. For more information, visit creativespirit.com. Marblehead and the RevolutionWednesday,…

17 Dec

‘BUT I’M BORED!’: Local parenting coach pens new book on embracing ‘simpler approach’

Bella TravagliniColumns, Life Style, Opinion, Parenting, Top Stories

Parenting coach Lizzie Assa says that the tide is turning on how parents want to raise their children — which is embracing the simpler approach of days gone by. “Parents are exhausted from treating childhood like a resume-building project, and the results — anxious, overwhelmed children — are impossible to ignore,” said Assa. A Marblehead Current columnist and former nursery school teacher, Assa has written her first book, “But I’m Bored!,” which will be published in January, where she guides parents on how to foster…

18 Sep

ASK LIZZIE: Maybe a ‘good day’ at school isn’t what you think

khthomsonColumns, Parenting

From preschool pickup to college drop-off, this part hasn’t changed. I remember holding my breath all morning after preschool drop-off.Was she crying?Did he pee his pants again?Would she talk during snack time or just sit there frozen? Everyone told me I’d feel relieved once they started school. That I’d get to use those few hours to run errands, fold laundry or grab coffee with a friend. But once I finally dropped them off, the physical chaos of kids underfoot was replaced by a constant loop…

03 Sep

We didn’t homeschool, but we did this instead

khthomsonColumns, Local News, Parenting

We didn’t homeschool our kids. We didn’t move to a farm, sell our stuff, rent an RV and travel the world. We didn’t grow our own sourdough starter, raise chickens or even a vegetable garden. My husband and I both work (I was very part-time when they were small), and homeschooling wasn’t a fit logistically or financially. We did make one decision early on that shaped everything else: We chose to protect play and prioritize rest. I wanted my kids to have a childhood that…

14 Aug

Ask Lizzie: Getting your little ones ready for school

Leigh BlanderColumns, Parenting

School readiness isn’t reciting the alphabet. It’s being able to handle a “no” at the bakery. Yesterday at the beach, I watched a 6 year old with messy blond braids sprint across the sand toward the ice cream truck, damp dollars clenched in her fist. She was sandy, sweaty and ready for a popsicle. Lizzie Assa is a parenting and play expert. COURTESY PHOTO Quietly but confidently, she told the driver, “One Spider-Man pop,” and she pointed to the picture on the side of the…

09 Oct

When your child says ‘I’m stupid’

Leigh BlanderColumns, Parenting

"I'm stupid! I can't do this!"⁣ My heart sank to the bottom of my belly when those words tumbled out of his mouth. We were all sitting around the kitchen counter: my third grader was working through some math problems, while my first grader and preschooler played "store" using playdough and small animals. I had already noticed him looking longingly at the playdough balls his sisters were kneading into shape for their pretend game — the one he usually leads with confidence. Instead, there was…

30 Mar

ASK LIZZIE: Tackling check-out lines

Leigh Blander0 CommentsColumns, Parenting

Dear Lizzie: How can I help my 4-year-old stay patient while we’re in checkout lines at places like Target or the grocery store? She isn't in school full-time yet, so she often comes with me on errands, but it's becoming stressful. We sometimes let her use our phones, but I’d like to find a better way to manage these situations. Any tips? Dear reader: Waiting in line can be hard for kids — heck, it’s hard for most adults! By the time you get to…

13 Mar

Ask Lizzie: Ideas for spring playtime

Leigh Blander0 CommentsColumns, Parenting

Dear Lizzie, As a full-time working parent, I love the weekends for outdoor adventures with my toddler and preschooler. They enjoy the playground and the beach, but weekdays are a challenge. Can you suggest some simple, engaging outdoor activities we can enjoy together in the limited time we have after work and before bedtime? Dear reader, Getting outside is not only a fantastic way to release their pent-up energy but also an excellent opportunity for your kids to soak up the much-needed vitamin D after…